Relationships and commitments

A truly great relationship between 2 people can only exist on basis of giving freedom to each other and never ever on commitments made to each other — RGV

I don’t know where i am eligible to write this post as but lately when i look at some of the failed relationships of my frineds i thouht i would like to share my opinion about relationships and commitments

its perfectly fine for a people to fall in Love and become crazy over it, you and i cant help it, but the real problem comes when they commit to each other at a very early stage. usually any guy or a girl tries to show up there best or good part of them in the beggninning of any relationship may be friendship or lovers or for that matter even in new job this usually stays for may be first 6 months or 1 year depending on the person so obiviously when they are trying to show there best part these times relationships go fine . but the real person comes out only at the time of difficult situation or critical times and usually it takes little long time to observe the guy’s or girls behiour in these times. by this time people might have allready been in a commited relationship then the bad time starts and compromises begeins if both the guys are meature enough of understand each others problem and comprimise then it’s fine happy story otherwise relationship breaks and they wil have terreble time.

so my only advice is Don’t commit to a person early. be friends for some time obeserve in happy and tough times and see if he is right one for you and then make a decesion. i know its difficult for any indian girl to hangout with a guy and not been in a relation but times are chaning people are becoming more open.

please share your perspective about this in the comments below.